Different Options
When there is no "choice", it is easy to decide! you take what you are stuck to! whether it is food, date, a film or a job opportunity! The difficulty begins when you have choices, one of which you have to choose and non of which will come back if not chosen the first time! Most of the time, Don Corleone's expression comes true "He does not ask for a second favor, if you refuse the first one"!!!
I know it is a difficult situation! But a decision, specially those who might affect the rest of your life, is not that easy to make! This is when you feel tired and frustrated!
To make things even worse, you will always feel that you have made the wrong choice! and that should you have done otherwise, you would have been better off! No matter in what, buying a car, a new condo, dating a new girl, a new job offer and so forth! when you have options, you are in trouble deciding! and cpmlying with your own decision after that!
What a life!!!
I know it is a difficult situation! But a decision, specially those who might affect the rest of your life, is not that easy to make! This is when you feel tired and frustrated!
To make things even worse, you will always feel that you have made the wrong choice! and that should you have done otherwise, you would have been better off! No matter in what, buying a car, a new condo, dating a new girl, a new job offer and so forth! when you have options, you are in trouble deciding! and cpmlying with your own decision after that!
What a life!!!
You are right--completely right. It brings to mind the Bhuddist (I think) principle that pain is born of expectations. Our disappointment or dissatisfaction is all a product of our minds.
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Dee |
11:04 AM